Friends for Life:
Mal McSwain’s Ministry of Accompaniment

By Bethany Bradsher
Published by
Whitecaps Media

Friends for Life is the inspiring story of Mal McSwain and his decades of simple but profound ministry — “a ministry of accompaniment” — in the lives of thousands.

When chatting to a non-Christian high school football player he had just met at the very beginning of his ministry with Young Life, Mal felt the Lord tell him, “You’re going to know that guy for the rest of your life.” That was in 1957 and Mal was 22. Today, 64 years later, the two are still friends and Mal has walked alongside not just Dick Samuels, but many of his California classmates as well.

“Meet people as if you are going to know them for the rest of your life” became a way of life for Mal and his wife Wanda, and a ministry principle Mal taught decades of Young Life volunteer leaders and staff.

Said one former Young Life staff person, “Mal McSwain is the embodiment of Young Life’s relational form of ministry.”

Over the years Mal practiced the simple principle of “being there” for countless people, exhibiting for them the love and grace of Jesus, first with high school students in North Carolina, California, and Georgia, and later with adults around the country.

If you have an interest in Young Life, you will love this book, as it gets to the very essence of what has made that ministry special to so many. And if you have a desire to impact lives for Christ, you’ll find Mal’s example a powerful one to emulate.

Written with the full cooperation of the McSwains, noted author Bethany Bradsher brings to bear not only her gifted storytelling but also her long history with Young Life as a student, volunteer leader, and staff wife.

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Thank you!

The McSwains are donating 100% of their proceeds from this book to the Young Life ministry in the Middle East directed by Hunter Lambeth. Follow Hunter's blog here.

Introduction: Sheer Encouragement
1. Friends for Life
2. A Foundation in Christ
3. A Partner in Prayer
4. An Expanding Vision
5. Just Showing Up
6. A Vehicle for Building Relationships
7. Every Kid
8. Meeting Kids on Their Turf

Friends for Life Table of Contents

9. Praying for Them by Name
10. Walk in Wisdom
11. Staying Sharp
12. Follow Me as I Follow Christ
13. Evangelism and Discipleship
14. Useless Presence
15. Building Trust
16. Leave It Up to the Holy Spirit
17. Never Let Go

18. Lifelong Learning
19. No Lone Rangers in Ministry
20. The Gospel is Better Caught than Taught
21. Connecting People and Cultivating Community
22. Sharing Sorrow
23. Through the Valley
24. Modeling Marriage
25. Legacy
26. Celebrate

“I remember the day Mal and Wanda said “we’ve thought of a title for the book…Friends for Life. We like the way ‘life’ can mean relationships for life, Young Life, and eternal life.’” —From the Introduction

This is Mal’s first prayer list when starting the Myers Park club while a student at Davidson in 1956 — little did Zach Thomas know that he and Mal would be featured in Friends for Life 65 years later!

Organized around Mal's ministry principles, Friends for Life is filled with anecdotes and adventures as told by Mal, Wanda, and many others.